Creator of the Intimacy Prenup™

Dr. Marla Reis, PhD

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Psychologist. Researcher. The person who finally built the assessment couples have always needed.
(And was a little annoyed it didn't exist sooner.)

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Redefining what it means
to prepare for love.

Dr. Marla Reis, PhD
PhD, Psychology University of Miami Licensed Psychologist Over 35 Years Clinical Practice Intimacy & Relationship Expert Couples & Premarital Specialist

In the early 90s — yes, THAT 90s — Dr. Marla Reis began sitting across from engaged couples and asking them the questions nobody else was asking. What she found was a pattern so consistent it never stopped showing up: couples arriving at the altar using the language of commitment without the substance of real conversation. The research became her doctoral dissertation at the University of Miami. And the clinical work that followed — thousands of couples, decade after decade — only kept confirming it. The Intimacy Prenup™ is what over three decades of validating her findings finally produced.

Dr. Marla is a leading intimacy and relationship expert dedicated to helping couples build deeply connected, resilient partnerships. Known for her direct yet compassionate approach, she works at the intersection of emotional intimacy, communication, trust-building, and long-term relationship sustainability — helping couples move beyond surface-level compatibility and into deeply aligned, conscious partnership.

"Intimacy is not something couples should leave to chance — it's something they can intentionally create, nurture, and protect."

— Dr. Marla Reis, PhD
"The most important planning a couple can do happens not at the venue — but in the conversation before they ever get there."
Dr. Marla Reis, PhD

Practical tools.
Emotional depth.

Dr. Marla works at the place where clinical rigor meets human warmth — blending practical frameworks with emotional insight to help couples address the conversations most people avoid before they become challenges. Her approach is direct without being clinical, structured without being rigid.

Through her programs, writings, program creation, and thought leadership, she has spent over three decades helping couples develop the language for the things they most need to say to each other. The couples who do best, she has found, are not the ones who fight the least — but the ones who have learned to speak honestly, especially about the things that are hardest to say.

Her work spans premarital counseling, relationship coaching, and clinical practice — with engaged couples, long-term partners, and anyone standing at a defining moment in their relationship. (Which, if you're reading this, might be you.)

The tool she always
wanted to exist.

Dr. Marla is the creator of the Intimacy Prenup™ — an innovative framework that helps couples establish clear communication, aligned expectations, and lasting intimacy foundations prior to marriage. It is the assessment she has always wanted to build: rigorous enough to matter, and human enough to feel like an act of love rather than a clinical exercise.

The Intimacy Prenup™ is available for couples to use on their own, and as a resource for coaches, therapists, and premarital counselors to use with the couples they serve. Through it, Dr. Marla is redefining what it means to prepare for relationships and marriage in the modern world. (Because "we love each other" is a beautiful start — it's just not a plan.)

It isn't a contract. It's a mirror — one you hold up together.

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